EPISODE 20: PERSONAL GROWTH

The Power of Words: How Language Shapes Your Child’s Identity

Oct 20, 2025

Explore the power of words in parenting.

Discover how everyday language shapes identity, self-worth, and emotional growth—for your child and for you.
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The words we speak—especially to our children—don’t just communicate, they create; they shape identity, self-worth, and the stories we live into.

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 LISTENER PRAISE

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"Such an easy, inspiring listen—uplifting tips, practical advice, and so relatable that you feel truly connected."

5 Takeaways From This Episode

1️⃣ Language Shapes Identity

The words we choose don’t just describe our children; they define them. Every phrase becomes part of their inner story.

2️⃣ Intent Over Habit

“Good job” feels positive, but it teaches kids to seek approval instead of trusting their own inner compass. Lead with presence, not praise.

3️⃣ Labels Become Limits

A single word—lazy, messy, bossy—can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Speak to potential, not performance.

 4️⃣ Words Build Worlds

“You’re just a mom,” shrinks you. “You’re raising world-changers” expands you. The language we use with ourselves sets the tone for how we parent.

5️⃣ Speak Life, Not Expectation

Every word is a building block of confidence, connection, and identity. Choose them like they matter—because they do.

Why Listeners Keep Tuning In

Love this! Thank you for this episode Anya! l appreciate the tips for how to encourage creativity. I love the idea of using hands-on learning and experimentation, imagination, senses, asking open-ended questions, observing, offering freedom in choices, having them practice, problem-solve, and letting them fail!

Kayla Linares

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Parents Need! This podcast is a breath of fresh air! Anya's passion is contagious. If you're looking for clarity, confidence, and connection in your homeschooling journey-this is the podcast for you!

Anastasia Larsson

Wow, this is amazing! I loved hearing this — it’s so true. Creativity really does get snuffed out as we grow older unless we actively work to preserve, protect, nourish, and let it flourish.

Melanie Beers-Quinn

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Meet Anya

Winner of the 2025 Global Women Changing the World in Education Award and named the #1 Key Early Learning Influencer in North America, Anya Garcia helps you parent with purpose and live with intention.


After walking away from a high-powered legal career, she entered her true calling—shining the light on the early years, a period rich with potential, transformation, and often-overlooked power.

Blending neuroscience, evolutionary insight, and practical strategies, Anya helps children thrive and adults evolve. You will find mindset-shifting tools and science-backed insights to inspire lasting change. 

This Show is where mindset meets motherhood, education meets empowerment, and transformation begins now—one child, one parent at a time.

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